Tuesday, January 12, 2010

More on James

Someone sent me an email alerting me to the fact that James also has a AmIhotornotnude-profile. Please vote! :-)

8 comments:

Ayden said...
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Jo Kristian said...

Thanks for your message!

Make sure to tell me if you come to Norway! Then maybe I'll make sure that you come in Norway... :-)

Espen, Oslo said...

I have been reading your entire blog, and I must admit I don't get how you're thinking. You seem so very occupied about what people think - trying to be "innocent" in all kinds of situations. If you get a hard-on on a beach, you pretend you've been sleeping and so on...

I love to go to the gay nude beach in Oslo, too. But I pick a place near the more cruisy area, and when I go to have a swim, I'm not ashamed of my erection. My cock turns heads, and I have sex among the cliffs within a short time.

Why the "discretion" - it's sexy to have a huge, rocky hard cock and be proud of it! I hope next summer that I'll see you there with a more assertive attitude!

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Jo Kristian said...

Espen: It's interesting to hear your point of view - I would love to hear more about your adventures and your approach.

I think my approach has a lot to do with also being a voyeur. As a voyeur, I like the uncertain. I love to see a nude guy without being entirely sure if he sees me or not. I love to see a guy sporting a hard-on without knowing if he is aware of it or not.

But I can't really articulate why I prefer to have a hard-on "with an excuse" rather than to show it off with "an assertive attitude". I know that I will get as much sex with your approach. I just know that for me, there is a game going on, which sometimes is just as important for me as the sex.

On a "normal" nude beach (not a gay beach) or at a non-nude beach, there is also the pragmatic thing that being "discrete" makes people interested, while being "in-your-face" may make them upset or worried.

These are just preliminary thoughts - I'll have to come back to them and probably post on them again...

raulito said...

Hi:
read some of your stories...they are very good...some even great...
thought you may want to check out my blog...I have original erotic stories, mostly based on my life's experiences.
saludos,
raulito
http://fromtop2bttm.blogspot.com/

Jo Kristian said...

Thanks, raulito, I'll start following your blog!

James

Tremendi said...

When do we get to see some more updates. I know that you need to be in the mood to write, as I do, but an occasional update (once a week, even if it says not too much) would be good too.